Saturday, March 24, 2012

Happy Spring!

 Yep!  They are sitting in a huge mud puddle!  Julie
said it took about thirty minutes to persuade Kate
to join her friends in the mud.  So cute and so
funny (and so good for Kate)!  Have I mentioned
lately how much I appreciate Kate's teacher?!!!  Oh and she
washed all their clothes too!!!!
Our days continue to be so busy with play dates, Great Minds activities, church, gymnastics, fishing, physical therapy, occupational therapy, work, and school.  We are all really looking forward to Spring Break and having some lazy mornings and catching up on housework.  We love our little house but these days it's REALLY feeling little.  I can't wait to have some time to sort through toys, papers, and clothes!  It always feels better when everything is organized again!

We were so excited to find out that Kate was awarded a $1,500.00 medical grant that I had applied for!  Thank you United Healthcare!!!  The grant money can be used for more physical and occupational therapy appointments.  Our insurance, which ironically is United Healthcare, only covers 20 appointments a year, so with the grant money we'll be able to continue Kate's every other week appointments.  That should truly help!  Ideally she should be going to physical therapy once a week, but thankfully we have Julie as Kate's preschool teacher and she makes sure that all the kids get tons of exercise everyday!  That has helped so much!  We do worry about when Kate begins kindergarten though... when she doesn't get enough exercise you can really tell the difference.  Her legs are stiff and her balance is a little "off".  I'm getting ready to apply for another grant though, so hopefully we'll get a little more help to pay for the appointments that she needs once school starts in August.  Of course Kate's weekly gymnastics helps too. 

Kate's new braces are working great!  Her toe drag is much better and a pair of shoes lasts much longer!  Unfortunately we are having a little trouble with the insurance company though... the orthopedics company we used is out of network... I've written an appeal to the insurance company so we'll see what happens.  We LOVE Eastpoint Prosthetics and want to continue working with them, so hopefully the insurance company can make an exception.  Fingers crossed... If not we may just see what it costs to continue to work with them even though they are out of network.  Eastpoint Prosthetics is being super patient with the process, so that's good news! 

We were very excited to find out that Kate got into Hilburne Academy for kindergarten.  They are a smaller school that worked with me as I tried to figure out the public school selection process when I went to turn in Kate's application.  Once we found out she was in, I sent an e-mail and have been corresponding with several people to figure out how to get Kate's 504 plan in place before school starts in August.  It truly helped that we had Preschool Services already assess her back in December!  There are so many people to coordinate with, but thankfully we have time to get it all figured out.  Everyone has been so nice and helpful!  The 504 plan will give Kate accommodations such as someone to carry her lunch tray, help her up any stairs, etc.  Kate does great but when you throw in running, jumping kids, we worry that she'll be knocked over and fall down.  We also don't want Kate to get "teased" for walking slower, etc.  She's pretty spunky though and we always say, "I wouldn't mess with Kate!"  We're pretty sure she can hold her own!  Our plan is for Kate to attend public school kindergarten for a year and once Brennan graduates fifth grade from my school the two kids will switch places.  Hilburne Academy goes through eighth grade so should be a great middle school for Brennan!  Of course if Kate ends up loving Hilburne, we'll keep her there and save some money each month.  :-) 

Brennan has been busy with school and is doing well!  He is so much more responsible about homework although he left one assignment for the last minute.  He was supposed to read Harry Potter (the first book) and said he was reading at school when I asked.  When I went to his conference with his teacher she asked if he was reading it at home...  so he was busted!  We got the book and started reading it with only a week and a half to get it completed.  Of course that was on top of his daily homework, etc.  Poor kid missed some play time and TV time but we read it together and he actually ended up enjoying it!  He was really happy he did read the book when Harry Potter Day arrived!  His entire classroom was transformed into Hogwarts for the day and everyone dressed up.  It was such a fun day for everyone filled with wand making, spells, potions, and even a Quidditch match at PE time.  They also had a guy come in with owls to teach about them.  Hopefully my hesitant reader may be hooked on a series to read for awhile... I was impressed with his reading skills when we read the book together, but can't figure out how to get him to truly enjoy reading on a daily basis?!!  Oh well... I guess I should be happy he has the skills necessary, even if he doesn't love it. 


Kate continues to go on amazing field trips and learn so much at her school.  One day Kate commented that she wanted to pet a sheep, so Julie arranged it and off they went!  What a blessing that Kate has been exposed to so much during her first year in America! 

Kate was looking through some pictures on my phone this morning and came to a video of her crying that was taken in September.  We certainly don't miss those days... although now she is in a yelling mode!  I guess I'd choose yelling over the crying but I hope we can convince her (SOON!) that talking is just as effective as yelling/whining.  We keep saying she is working through all the toddler stages in one year... it's probably healthy and we do have a five year old Kate more and more often! 

A few more milestones that she's accomplished-
She can write her name now, she can jump,  she can do a somersault, she can (almost) ride her big wheel without help, she can dress herself, she knows most of her colors (although gets red and green mixed up), she can color within the lines, and she can do a 24 piece puzzle by herself!  It's so funny to teach her something because when you are teaching her or helping her the first or second time she does. not. get .it. at. all... then all of a sudden you help her a third time and she totally gets it!  She amazes us!  It's been nine months and she's learned about as much as a four year old does in that time.  I think she'll be caught up by August!

 So life has settled down although we stay quite busy!  Looking forward to spring break in one week...

Fishing at Springdale with Brennan

After holding these baby chicks at
school, Brennan was trying to convince
me that we could have chickens on our
deck!  I love this kid!

Kate singing at church.
She always looks so cute
and sings her heart out!

Kate was at a park with her
classmates and was so proud
that she could climb on this structure.
She wanted Julie to take a picture so we
could show it to Caitlyn (her PT therapist).
Caitlyn was very impressed!

I love this picture!  Back in
June we would never have let
Kate walk Zamboni for fear
that he would pull her down.
It shows how much stronger and
confident she is when walking!

Brennan helped Kate do her very first Lego
set! She did great and even knew how to
follow the directions.  I guess watching
Brennan put Lego sets together for
nine months helped!

Celebrating my dad's birthday at Golden
Corral- one of his favorite places.  It's hard
 to believe that he has been in heaven for nine years...

The kids wanted to sleep in the living room
the other night so we set up an air mattress
for them only to find them BOTH sleeping
on the hard floor in the morning!  Silly
kids!

Kate knew she was going to the farm
with Julie but insisted on wearing
her dress!  It's amazing to see her
feeding the goat when she wouldn't even
touch an animal in June!  Thanks Julie!

The perfect Easter picture!!!  Kate told everyone
about the baby bunnies!


Harry Potter Day at TRS!


Kate was Little Bo Peep
for nursery rhyme day at school.

Sunday, February 26, 2012

Happy Birthday Kate!

Kate's birthday is February 11th... although her celebrations started two days earlier on a Thursday.  Julie, Kate's teacher, arranged for her first celebration at the place where the kids take karate during the day.  Kate thought it was VERY cool that her cake was cut with a SWORD!!!  We laughed because Kate probably thought that all cakes are cut with swords.  :-)

Kate's celebration continued on Friday when Kate visited my school before her Friday babysitter picked her up.  Kate opened several presents from my co-workers and then celebrated with Erika!  By Friday afternoon Kate had opened five gifts already!




And time to cut the cake...

 
The kids were so excited
to see Aunt Wendy and
Uncle Dan on
Saturday morning!
Kate opened a few
presents when she woke up
on her birthday.















We had a big surprise in store for both kids for the weekend...  my sister, Wendy, and her husband, Dan, were flying in at 11:30 PM Friday for the big weekend.  Wendy had come for Brennan's fifth birthday too.  The kids went to bed and woke up Saturday morning to our special visitors!
Kate helped set everything
up before her friends arrived.
We headed over to Kenney's Gymnastics at about 9:30 AM for the party.  Brennan also had his fifth birthday party at Kenney's four years earlier.  Kate was SO excited!  Her friends arrived at 10:00 AM and everyone had so much fun bouncing, climbing, jumping, balancing... and finally eating some cake!

After the party we headed home to drop everything off and let Kate open her presents.  She was one happy little girl!  By the time the last gift was opened, we were all so hungry so we headed to Manchesters to eat lunch.  We rested at the house for a little while after lunch before heading to Frankie's Fun Park.

Getting ready for some gymnastics
fun!  There ended up being 17
children!

The theme was Hello Kitty!


Julie just climbed right in to
help the little ones across the
balance beam!  Thanks Julie!


We were very impressed with
Jeff's balancing skills- he and his
son made it across without falling
into the cheese pit!





Fun at Kenney's

The birthday girl gets a
trophy from  Kenney's!
FYI- we're trying to grow Kate's
bangs out... too bad they fall
straight forward!



Can you find Kate
behind all of her gifts???

Julie knows Kate well-
she was so excited about her
cheese puffs!


Kate loved her birthday girl shirt!  Thanks
Aunt Kim and Uncle Spyros!

Frankie's has so many things to do!
At Frankie's we played games, rode some ride simulators, exchanged our tickets for prizes, and then watched Wendy and Brennan play some Laser Tag.  Wow!  We had such a fun day!

On Sunday Kate wanted to go to Sunday School so we dropped her off.  The rest of us were a little lazier but we headed back to church to listen to Kate sing at the 11:00 AM service.  After that we headed to El Rodeo for lunch and then to Monkey Joe's Bounce House.  I think Wendy loved it even more than the kids!  We are so lucky in Raleigh to have so many fun options for entertainment. 

I actually think Wendy may
have had more fun than the kids!
She didn't want to leave!
After Monkey Joe's we headed to the Dollar Store where each child got $3.00 to spend. They had fun picking out more treasures.  We were all sad when it was time for Aunt Wendy and Uncle Dan to leave for the airport.  Wow!  We certainly had a lot of fun during their 41 hour visit! 
We gave Brennan a few quarters
to play the Claw machine at Monkey
Joe's.  He kept winning so we
gave him a few more quarters...
And here he is with all of his
winnings... plus he already had
given two stuffed animals to
some little kids.

Friends!

I have been wondering what to give up for Lent this year and then at church today the message was not "what to give up" but "what can bring you closer to God"?   The message was perfect...

Let me explain:
Anyone who knows me well, knows I am horrible at keeping in touch- I love them for understanding that about me.  There are also some friends that I have really let down because of my own stressful times and time restraints. I love that they can find it in their hearts to forgive me!   I always care about my friends and family but don't always show it well.  

The message at church this morning was perfect!  I don't have to give something up- I need to do more to show my friends and family how much I care!  So for the next 40 days I am going to do 40 things to SHOW everyone how much I care!  So many people are in my heart and on my mind every single day... but showing how much I appreciate them is something I need to do better!

I am so excited about Lent this year!  It means so much more to me than my previous 40 days of giving something up, which have included french fries and Oreos in past years (difficult at times but I was successful).  I hope the next 40 days will become a lifetime of me becoming a better friend!!

I do want to say thank you to so many people that hang with me no matter what!  You all mean the world to me and your guidance, support, laughter, and memories truly mean everything! God has blessed me with all of you and I do thank Him everyday!  With that said, I hope you all forgive me for my shortcomings... I always say my kids are a "work in progress" and the same is true of me!

As I said in an earlier post... one of my daily mantras is "Let me be patient, kind, loving, and sincere..."  I promise that my 40 days of "showing" truly comes with sincere and loving thoughts!

Thank you to all my friends and family! I do love and care about all of you!

Happy Lent!
Love,
DeAnna

Saturday, January 14, 2012

Happy New Year!

I had fun updating the pages on our blog and remembering back to when I started this blog almost a year ago.  It's amazing to think about how many people helped to bring Kate home.  It was a journey of faith and God continues to surround us with amazing people!  We have the best team taking care of Kate's CP needs and her school is perfect!  We love her teacher, Ms. Julie, and truly can't say enough wonderful things about her!  I thought the More at Four program would be the best for her, but God had other plans when the program was full.  He helped us find Julie who has helped in so many ways!  It's a good reminder to me that my prayers are always answered, although it's not always the answer I thought it would be! 

I will forever be grateful that Brennan was able to travel to China with me!  It truly meant the world to have him along!  I wish his adjustment to having a sister could have been easier once we got home, but hopefully he'll look back at the experience with laughter and appreciation because it forced him to grow and share a little more.  Brennan is such a caring and wonderful person... I always say he's a "work in progress" though.  I love the changes I've seen in him since June.  He's truly learning what a special gift it is to have a sister!

I remember the months of August/September as the hardest months of my life!  Going back to work was tough for everyone- especially Kate because I wasn't with her all day anymore!  We all took our turns falling apart... but thankfully once Kate got used to her schedule everything settled down and life became easier. I wish I would have screamed for help and if asked to give advice to anyone adopting an older child, I would definitely suggest getting a babysitter once a week for "breathing time".  I hope Kate doesn't remember much of this time of her life because her mom was definitely not her best.  If she does remember, I hope she has empathy and understanding for all of us!  If anything, it truly makes me appreciate our happier and less stress free days that we now experience with a lot more thanks! 

Kate has truly amazed all of us!  She has picked up on the language so well!  The other day she learned the very American phrase "duh" and used it often (and appropriately).  She cracks us up with her sense of humor!  She truly is a funny, sweet, caring, and amazing little person!  She is determined and stubborn too- both good things most of the time! 

We took a walk today to the little playground in our neighborhood.  It's about six blocks away and Kate walked the entire way!  I would have never imagined she could walk that far back in June!  I wish I understood how her CP makes her feel though- she's been a little grumpy tonight and so I'm thinking it may be because her muscles ache a little and she just doesn't know or understand that yet. 

They are in the process of designing some new braces for her legs.  The first ones have helped a little but her feet still turn in too much and we still go through a pair of shoes every month because of her toe drag.  Hopefully the new braces will work a little better.  What truly seems to work best for her is exercise every day!  She often practices the skills that Ms. Caitlyn teaches her at physical therapy.  Her newest skills are jumping and trying to balance on one leg.  She's always so proud when she accomplishes one of the skills! 

She still squeals loudly when she is excited!  It is so cute to hear!  Her enthusiasm brings joy to my heart!

Everyday I ask God to help me be patient, kind, loving, and sincere to everyone I meet.  I ask Him to help me be the best I can be in all the "hats" I wear (teacher, daughter, mother, sister, and wife).  I ask Him to help my words be understood clearly and for His arms to be felt around anyone who is hurting or sad.  Finally I thank him for all the blessings in my life and thank him for the health and happiness of my family. 

I don't always live up to my prayer (flashback to September)... but I know He understands and forgives.  For 2012 my New Year's Resolution is to live up to my prayer even better than I did in 2011.  2011 was such a magical year!  So many prayers were answered in such wonderful ways!  I look forward to 2012 and all the wonderful memories waiting to be made! 

Happy New Year!

Family Pictures December 2011


Kate's "Sassy" look
 My brother-in-law, Spyros, took these pictures for us.  We were so excited to finally have everyone together to take the large group picture.  It had been 24 years since we were all together at the same time!

Dave, DeAnna, Norman, Wendy, Dan, Spyros, Kim
Steve, Brennan, Penny, Kate


My mom (Penny), brother (Norman),
and Sister (Wendy)



The kids were pretending to swim...















My step dad, Steve, and his daughter Kim


Spryos and Kim





Wendy and her husband Dan
with Kate and Brennan